the cult of social justice has turned my own family against me

they're all mindless SJW drones now who hate themselves

It's a strange paradox. Until one learns to master navigating the world one cannot reject it. Those who are the most unhappy and hate the world the most are also the most tied to it. Trying to convince an unhappy person that it is possible to reject the world is very difficult, they have defined themselves by the world to the point they cannot escape its clutches. Many are saying the only way out is to be humble, to accept that the things you hate in the world are also found in yourself. Only then can you begin to systematically remove the material world's hold upon you.