/lounge/ casual dating

I'm a positive and artistic type guy, who loves a great adventure and plate of food. I'm an avid film fanatic of the sci-fi and drama genre, but can enjoy anything from Alien to Fight Club. As a nurse, I live and breathe Nursery culture and spend most my day thinking about what life I'm working to save next. Ex punk rock thug, now finishing a PhD in Professional Nursery. A guy who loves cats, to be busy and stay off his phone, then talk about those experiences with someone the right way… in person.

First date: A casual place we can talk face to face and get comfortable
End Game: A taco dinner at home accompanied by an episode of Naked And Afraid.

Say what you want about his music but slamming someone for being "small and effeminate" sounds like heteronormative, bordering-on-homophobic BS to me. Who cares about someone's size or whether they are "masculine" or "feminine"?