Apparently, my vagina is "childish."

A bit of a rant, but it's short. I hope this is the right place for this topic...I have to say, I hate the way this "vagina/labia positive" movement is manifesting itself. The idea is to make women with large or long labias to feel better about themselves and assure them that they are normal. Now that's all well and good, but PLEASE STOP putting down other women for something they cannot help in the process.

I am 21 years old and I have very small and short labia lips and a small clitoris. Yes, this is natural. I did not have surgery. I'm seeing this influx of rude assessments about vaginas that look like mine. Apparently mine is "childish" and isn't what a "real woman" looks like down there. Also, my boyfriend is a pedophile for liking it. Yes, people are now saying that men who like small labias must be pedos. I am SO tired of hearing that I have a "little girl vagina." There's nothing wrong with the way mine looks! Why do we act like my crotch only exists in porn and sets unrealistic expectations!? That's just what it looks like and I can't help it. Tearing other women down is not how to go about promoting body positivity, FYI.

"Madam, is that your labia, or have you stapled on a pair of old beef steaks?"
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I like my roast beef with horseradish and onions.