>>2What the fuck, OP in that thread[1] is probably one of the sanest people on that board. You should try quoting some of the replies instead.
notenoughtokillme subscribes to a rather interesting definition of rape:
I think if someone has an experience that they consider rape, then it's rape, regardless of whatever was going on with the other person. But I also feel like I've personally had some experiences where the other person did everything they could to make sure they had my consent, and I still had sex with them that I didn't want. I don't consider this rape personally, because the other person was not at fault. But it really fucks with my head because I feel like I pressured myself in a lot of those situations. And I wasn't even really aware that I didn't want it sometimes.
fifthredditincarnati apparently does not understand that some people might be worried about being [i]accused[/i] of the crime that now ranks somewhere between torturous murder and genocide, the fact that the legal process is a terrible ordeal even if you win, and that anal rape is far more common in men's prisons than women's (at least in the USA):
How about we just fucking stop talking about all the hypothetical possible ways in which someone could "accidentally" commit rape? It's fucking derailing and an enormous red herring, is what that is.
I'll change my mind about this the day great droves of men - nay, even ONE SINGLE MAN - go/goes to jail for accidental rape.
As it stands, so few rapists even get reported, let alone get prosecuted or heaven forbid get convicted ... or - hahahahahahaha - go to jail. Given this reality, ALL conversation about rape needs to be about stopping rape and not these amazingly contrived scenarios where dudes do everything right but women being evil bitches always, always cry rape. Not even if your intent is to debunk it. Because that just ends up legitimizing the shitheads.
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http://www.reddit.com/r/SRSWomen/comments/26zxtt/can_we_talk_rape_trigger_word_rape/